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Post by Flagryl on Feb 19, 2024 11:58:21 GMT -5
Dear Milyn, I get it...your anger. It's not fair and life is not fair. Life is not easy, and it's harder for some more than for others. You are a good, bright, caring woman. Keep on breathing and fight to stay centered. That good, bright and caring woman inside of you deserves the best you can manage. It will be enough.
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Post by Smilyn on Feb 19, 2024 13:03:37 GMT -5
Thank you Flagryl. I'm trying.
A much brighter, better, more caring friend died yesterday from cancer. I am far from Penny's example of acceptance, cheerful willingness, and uncomplaining endurance. I have missed her a lot as her battle isolated her. I will miss her more now that I can't even text her. Hard day.
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Post by Huronna on Feb 19, 2024 13:07:45 GMT -5
So many of us have various problems, and yet we all care so much foreach other. I have not been online much, even to say hi, no wifi and when I did have it I was too emotionally drained to say anything. We are right now inthe luxury lounge of Latam airlines. They do always book us first class so that helps when so many other things go array. We got up at seven, as I had to get Joe ready by 8 for wheelchair pickup. There have been multiple transfers, which are exhausting. Off the ship onto a transfer to the terminal. Another transfer o get to where the luggage is, ID that and give it to security and hope it makes it ge luggage forward people. Then a bus to the airport. Off the bus find a wheelchair and assistance. Then. At first they didn’t want to check us in because flight doesn’t leave until 8, thankfully my Spanish must have melted their heart and finally we were now both in wheelchairs, I was about to collapse. Managing two carryon s, my travel purse and coats, while on guy pushed Joe. They don’t have Pinot Grigio , maybe that’s a good thing. Finally got on line and checked tracking for our luggage , it has been picked up, to be delivered Feb 25. Now I’d like to take a nap, but chairs aren’t nap able. Miss you all, I am alive, but probably have aged 20 years in this irdeal
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Post by Grassy on Feb 19, 2024 14:49:03 GMT -5
Milyn, much love to you. It is OK to be angry. Grrrrr! Frankly, I would be surprised if you weren't angry and experiencing a whole jumble of things right now. That is OK. Once you get the facts and learn more, that will bring more calm. Or it did for me. But like it's been said before, we're all different and we go through things differently. Your feelings are totally valid. I am sorry about your friend Penny. I am sending you some of my light and love. I know you are unhappy right now and I am not going to play the Glad Game with you, so why don't you just have some of my love and light? Right now I've got lots to spare.
I've got enough for everyone without robbing myself. I love you all.
Life is pretty good here. I am going to the grocery store later. I am still in my PJ's LOL.
Huronna, I am so sorry you had the trip from that hot place.
Flagryl, I am sending your cousin love and prayers too.
I hope everyone else is well and/or getting better. Love to all.
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Post by Flagryl on Feb 19, 2024 15:44:27 GMT -5
Huronna, try a white Torrontes. Muy Bueno, try a Torrontés Riojano. Not as dry or acidic.
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Post by Grassy on Feb 19, 2024 15:58:19 GMT -5
Like Dory says in Finding Nemo - Keep swimming. Just keep swimming. Sometimes I say that when I need help to keep on keeping on. I hope it helps someone.
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Post by Smilyn on Feb 19, 2024 17:59:49 GMT -5
swimming... swimming... Gracias Grassy (oops, I almost rhymed that...) ahem.
Huronna... I really hope you can rest on the plane. Sending energy. I have extra; built up from frustration trying to enter my long med history, allergies, treatments, surgeries etc into the oncology new patient portal _on my phone_ as they can't transfer the link to email and internet. Lots of energy your way... Don't snarl at anyone. Mucho suerte a tu y su esposo!!
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Post by Mary on Feb 19, 2024 18:58:49 GMT -5
Hur, how is Joe doing? You're back on home turf now I'm guessing
I have 5 of my entries done for the Zone. Cranked them out over 2 days
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Post by Grassy on Feb 19, 2024 19:37:20 GMT -5
Oh wow - is there a Zone auction coming up?
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Post by silk on Feb 20, 2024 1:34:38 GMT -5
I'm sorry Milyn at the diagnosis. Another hurdle to overcome...and you will. I am a survivor but another type of cancer. Thank you for your good wishes. My very best to you. ♥
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Post by Mary on Feb 20, 2024 4:51:43 GMT -5
Yep Grassy. First weekend of the month
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Post by Grassy on Feb 20, 2024 9:14:49 GMT -5
Mary, I better get crack a lackin!
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Post by Huronna on Feb 20, 2024 10:37:31 GMT -5
Right now we are in JFK awaiting flight to tampa. There are so many unbelievable stories about this flight home. Here is the best one. We arrived in Lima, and there were stairs to exit the plane. Not possible, and had they said this we would have changed flights. So the whole crew stand there waiting for the contraption that will elevate a wheelchair to the door . But it never came. And time was getting close to our next flight. I talked to the capt to see if he could talk to the connecting capt to see if he could hold the flight for this extrenuous circumstance. Tick took, nothing arriving, except a wheelchair that goes into the plane, what to do……I’m about in tears, and finally five guys from the assistant team, picked up joe in the wheelchair and step by step, carried it on high with joe init and made it to the bottom. You should have heard the sighs of relief. And then the mad dash to the awaiting flight. Yes, we were the last to board, all were there waiting for us.
Right now I don’t ever want to see another airport or airplane……ever!
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Post by Smilyn on Feb 20, 2024 11:51:41 GMT -5
OMG! That is both a beautiful and terrifying tale! I get the wobbles just thinking about the height on that lift. But so good hearted of them to do it. Was Joe terrified or excited? Regardless... I am so glad you made the plane and are in the US.
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Post by silk on Feb 20, 2024 17:30:30 GMT -5
Oh Huronna. What a nightmarish experience for you and Joe. Enormous anxiety.
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Post by Flagryl on Feb 20, 2024 18:14:22 GMT -5
Exactly. I am waiting for you to post so I know you are home safely. You should be home by now, hoping there are no more glitches and you both make it home safely.
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Post by Huronna on Feb 20, 2024 19:11:04 GMT -5
we are home, with friends that have been staying here, it was a wonderful welcome home
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Post by Flagryl on Feb 20, 2024 19:17:00 GMT -5
Whew, I hope they cooked dinner!!! Welcome home!
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Post by Grassy on Feb 20, 2024 20:48:25 GMT -5
Welcome home!
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Post by Grassy on Feb 20, 2024 20:49:50 GMT -5
Mary, do I still send my ZOne entries to Penny or do I send them to Terri now?
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Post by Mary on Feb 20, 2024 21:35:09 GMT -5
PM them to Jackie (Lady Jessica)
and welcome home!
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Post by Huronna on Feb 21, 2024 10:40:14 GMT -5
lady_jessica_5@yahoo.co.uk you can sent them there also
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Post by Smilyn on Feb 21, 2024 11:37:27 GMT -5
I'm glad you are safely home and also glad you were welcomed.
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Post by Grassy on Feb 21, 2024 14:36:42 GMT -5
Thanks Mary and Huronna for the Zone intel!
How is everyone doing today? I hope everyone is fine and getting better! I love you all!
I cut my nails back and it is so weird to be able to type correctly without those fingernails in my way ha ha ha. That Nailtiques is wonderful! It worked on my nasty, unhealthy nails! Thanks for the tip Huronna!
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Post by margie52501 on Feb 21, 2024 18:54:43 GMT -5
Welcome home Huronna. Hope Joe and you're doing okay now? I don't blame you about not wanting to see another airport or plane again for a while. I finally find out what was wrong with me. I found out what has been going on and it had to do with my blood pressure medicine. I take 3 different ones , but the one that was the problem has been taken care of. This one has a 24 hour release and it was a different color pill , was suppose to be white and this one was pink. Last week got a call from the pharmacy that takes care of my medicine and the doctor's nurse called and told them about the mix up. I got the right medicine last Thursday and it's working. No shakes and had blood work done last Tuesday and got my results , my blood sugar is good, so is my sodium and phosphrous are also good . My kidneys are stable and functioning like they should. This is the second time I have had problems with my blood pressure. Thanks for your kind words and prayers. God bless you all.
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